Boys Love (BL) has taken the world by storm, captivating audiences with its heartfelt storytelling, diverse characters, and groundbreaking representation of LGBTQ+ relationships. If you’re new to BL and don’t know where to start, don’t worry—this guide has you covered! Here are some tips and recommendations to kick off your journey as a BL fan.
1. Understand What BL Is
BL refers to a genre of media—including TV shows, movies, novels, webtoons, and more—that focuses on romantic relationships between male characters. It originated in Japan with Yaoi and shōnen-ai manga and has since grown into a global phenomenon, particularly in countries like Thailand, South Korea, Taiwan and the Philippines. BL is not only about romance but also explores themes of friendship, self-discovery, and societal challenges.
2. Start with Popular and Accessible BL Series
The easiest way to dive into BL is by watching some of the most well-loved shows. Here are a few recommendations to get you started:
- Thailand:
- SOTUS: The Series
- Bad Buddy
- 2gether: The Series
- Japan:
- Cherry Magic! Thirty Years of Virginity Can Make You a Wizard?!
- Given
- South Korea:
- Where Your Eyes Linger
- Semantic Error
- Taiwan:
- HIStory Series
- The On1y One
- Philippines:
- Gameboys
- Gaya Sa Pelikula
Explore trailers and reviews to see which shows resonate with your interests. Streaming platforms like YouTube, Netflix, WeTV, GagaOOLala and iQIYI often have subtitles for international fans.
3. Understand the Cultural Context
BL stories often reflect the cultural backgrounds of the countries they come from. For example:
- Thai BL often portrays university settings and includes themes like “engineering couples.”
- Japanese BL tends to focus on more nuanced, slice-of-life storytelling.
- Korean BL series are typically shorter but highly polished in terms of production.
- Taiwanese BL series explore themes of love, identity, and acceptance, while also contributing to the broader popularity of BL content across Asia and beyond.
- Filipino BL highlights themes of family, acceptance, and modern relationships.
Understanding these contexts can enhance your appreciation of the genre.
4. Join BL Communities
Being part of a fandom enriches your experience as a BL fan. Here are some ways to connect:
- Facebook Groups: Search for BL fan groups in your region.
- Reddit: Check out the r/boyslove subreddit for discussions, fan theories, and recommendations.
- Social Media: Follow hashtags like #BLSeries or #BoysLove on platforms like Twitter and Instagram.
- Forums and Websites: Platforms like Boys Love Cafe Hub provide a safe space to engage with fellow fans.
5. Explore Other BL Mediums
While BL series are a great starting point, there’s much more to discover:
- Manga and Webtoons: Try titles like Given (manga) or Kiss Me, Liar (webtoon).
- Novels: Read translated works such as Heaven Official’s Blessing (Tian Guan Ci Fu).
- Fan Creations: Dive into fanfiction or fan art inspired by your favorite BL series.
6. Keep an Open Mind
BL spans a wide range of genres, from lighthearted rom-coms to intense dramas. Be open to exploring different types of stories and themes. Remember that every fan’s journey is unique, and there’s no right or wrong way to enjoy BL.
7. Respect the Community and Content
- Support Official Releases: Watch shows legally to support the creators and actors.
- Be Mindful Online: Respect different opinions and avoid engaging in toxic fan wars.
- Learn the Language: Familiarize yourself with common BL terms like “ship” (favorite pairing) or “fujoshi/fudanshi” (fans of BL).
8. Attend BL Events and Conventions
Keep an eye out for BL fan events, conventions, or online meetups where you can celebrate your love for the genre. These gatherings are great for meeting other fans, discovering new content, and even interacting with BL actors and creators.
9. Share the Love
Once you’ve fallen in love with BL, share your passion with friends! Recommend shows, write reviews, or even create your own BL-inspired content. The community thrives on fans sharing their enthusiasm and creativity.
10. Your BL Journey Begins Now
BL is a genre that continues to grow and evolve, offering something for everyone. Whether you’re here for the romance, the representation, or the heartfelt stories, the BL community welcomes you with open arms. Dive in, explore, and enjoy every moment of your journey!
What’s your favorite BL series or moment so far? Let us know your lists on comments and don’t forget to follow us, Boys Love Cafe Hub on social media platforms!
